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If you’ve never had a massage before there may be questions that you would like to know the answer to – but are afraid to ask.  In fact, many people never book their first massage for fear of some of the following fears.  We hope that the answers to these common questions and worries will put your mind at rest and give you the confidence to enjoy the many benefits of massage. Should I tip the therapist? If your massage is in a spa or at an hotel, it’s usual to tip 15 to 20% as long as you have been happy with the massage.  If you get your massage in a hospital or medical clinic, tipping isn’t expected and is inappropriate.

Do I have to take off my underwear for a massage?

This one is really personal choice.  Many people do like to keep panties or briefs on but some like to be totally naked.  If the area to be treated is in your lower back, around your hips, buttocks or groin, underwear may get in the way but you can get around this by wearing a thong (ladies) or snugly fitting briefs (gents).  Properly licensed therapists will always ensure that you are appropriately covered by a towel or sheet and will only uncover the area that is being massaged.

I’m scared I might drool or dribble during the massage!

Don’t worry!  This is extremely common and the therapist won’t judge you for it.  If anything, they will be pleased that you have reached such a level of relaxation and be happy that it was successful!  If it happens, just laugh and ask for a tissue!

Will the therapist stand there while I get undressed?

Licensed therapists leave the room so that you can take off your clothes and get comfortable on the massage table with a sheet or towel covering you.  The therapist will knock on the door and ask if you are ready before entering the room.

What about talking during massage?

This is entirely personal choice.  Some people do like to chat and others wish to stay quiet and enjoy the relaxation.  The therapist will take their lead from you and won’t expect a full on conversation unless that’s what you’re most comfortable with.  Most people just close their eyes, relax and enjoy!  An exception to this is if you are having a deep tissue massage which may cause some discomfort.  The therapist may ask you to tell them if it is too uncomfortable.

Alternatively, if any of the following occur, don’t be afraid to say…

  • The room is uncomfortably hot or cold
  • You are in pain (either before or during the massage)
  • You have any questions at all

I’m scared that I might get an erection during the massage…

Understandably, this is the main reason why most men don’t go for a massage.  Many that do go for one don’t enjoy it because they’re so worried that this might happen so they don’t relax.

Therapists are taught that gentle touch to any part of the body can trigger the parasympathetic nervous system and cause either a partial or full erection, which is pretty much out of the client’s control.  It is extremely common and something that they are totally used to.

Some men choose to wear a small, snugly fitting bathing suit to minimize the effects and if this will help you to relax and not be embarrassed, it’s a good idea.  But please be assured that for a therapist this is ‘all in a days’ work’!

How do I know that the massage will be therapeutic and not an erotic one?

Massage parlors that are a front for far more sexual activities don’t always look like seedy dives so how do you know that you’re just booking in for a therapeutic massage and not a whole lot more than you bargained for?  If it’s your first time either with a new masseuse or at a new venue, call first and ask the following -

  • What forms of therapeutic massage do you offer?
  • Does the therapist have certification or a license?
  • Do I need to fill out a health questionnaire prior to the massage?

The answers to these questions should ensure that you get what you want…either way!

I’d like the therapist to use more / less pressure but I don’t want to upset them…should I speak up?

Yes!  It’s not true that massage has to hurt to be doing you good.  A good therapist will want you to be comfortable and if you’re not – the massage will not be successful so don’t be afraid to ask for what you want.

I’m really embarrassed about a part of my body and don’t want the therapist to see it…

This is a very common concern and therefore is one that the therapist will be used to.  Some of the things that people worry about most are -

  • Being overweight
  • Having (or believing they have) excessive hair on their body
  • Having acne or acne scars on their face or back
  • Having (or believing they have) ugly feet
  • Having a scar or scars somewhere on their body

There are various ways around this.  You can ask the therapist to avoid that area or choose a Shiatsu or Thai massage.  Neither of these involves the use of oil and so you don’t have to remove any clothing.

I’d prefer a female massage therapist.  Is it alright to request this?

Yes, of course and many people do.  A lot of men feel highly uncomfortable at the thought of having another male massaging them and many women also prefer a female.  Both of these have a sexual basis.

However, it is rather sad that many good, male massage therapists find it hard to find employment due to this completely understandable discrimination.

Go for it…

We do hope that this article will encourage you to go ahead and try a massage.  We hope that you enjoy both the massage and the health benefits that it will bring.  It could be the start of a whole new you!

And to help you get started why not check out our guide to the Ten Most Popular Types of Massage.

Lavender – don’t just use it in a sachet!

munstead-lavenderIf like many people, you have a sachet of lavender in a closet or drawer, you might like to know that this humble plant has been used for centuries and in many, many ways!  Some of them may surprise you!  If you love lavender, read on…

Lavender used through the ages

The Romans were the first to frequently use lavender but it was reserved for the upper classes as it was very expensive.  Records of the time tell us that lavender flowers cost 100 Roman denarii per pound.  That’s a lot of lavender but the price equalled a months’ wages for a common laborer.

The name, lavender, comes from the Latin verb lavare, which means ‘to wash’.  This is because Romans loved to scent their baths with it.  It was also prized for its use in oils for massage.  In 60 AD, the Roman writer Dioscorides recorded medicinal uses for lavender, including the relief of headaches, stress, insomnia, aching muscles, insect bites, colds, rheumatism and hysteria!  When they invaded Britain, the Romans kindly brought lavender with them.

Medieval writings of 1301 tell us that monks used lavender in medicines.  Rich homes often had a room set aside specifically for the distillation of lavender to be used by the family and their servants.

In 1551, William Turner wrote “…the flowers of lavender quilted in a cap and worne are good for all diseases of the head that come from a cold cause and that they comfort the braine very well.” (sic)

Queen Elizabeth I loved lavender and her palace gardeners were instructed to have lavender available throughout the year.  Elizabethan recipes included Conserve of Lavender which was sugar scented with lavender flowers, and Lavender Tisane, a drink of lavender flowers and honey steeped in hot water.

Lavender in cooking

Warning: Scientific tests have shown that lavender oil can cause a strong allergic reaction.  If you are in any doubt, dilute one drop of lavender oil in ten drops of water and apply some to an area on your inner elbow.  Check hourly to see if there is any reddening of the skin or itching.  If there is, you are strongly advised to avoid it.

Lavender should always be avoided by pregnant women and those who are breastfeeding.

lavender-royal-vlevet-culinary-live-plantsCulinary’‘ lavender is used as an ingredient in many forms of cooking.  This consists of lavender buds that are gathered just before they flower as that is the time when the concentration of the lavender scented and flavoured oil in the bud is at its peak.  In France, lavender syrup is made from this oil.  The flowers and leaves may also be used in recipes.  As a general rule, these are used as a substitute for rosemary, sage, thyme, mint or marjoram.  The flowers can be crystallized to make dainty and flavourful decorations for cakes.  They can also be used in salads and cookies (it works very well with chocolate or plain ones) or ground to a pulp in a pestle and mortar and added to custards, jams and jellies to give a delicate taste and scent.

Lavender Honey

Lavender flowers give off a huge amount of nectar and attract bees.  In the Mediterranean, honey is made from the nectar that only comes from lavender and it is sold worldwide.  If you can’t get hold of some, you can cheat and make your own.

Ingredients: 8 oz of light honey and 4 tablespoons of dried lavender buds.

Method: Heat the honey in a double boiler and when it has heated right though, add the lavender.  Stir well and then leave it on a very gentle heat for another thirty minutes.  Allow it to cool for a few minutes and then strain it into a clean jar.

Lavender Lemonade

What could be nicer on a hot day than a refreshing glass of lavender lemonade?  It has a pale lilac color and an intoxicating scented flavor.

Ingredients: 5 cups of water, 1.5 cups of sugar, 2.25 cups of lemon juice, 12 stems of fresh lavender, lilac colored paste food coloring (optional).

Method: Put half of the water in a pan and add all of the sugar.  Bring it to the boil, add the lavender stems and take the pan off the heat.  Put a lid on the pan and leave it to cool.  Then add the remainder of the water and the lemon juice.  Strain it into a glass jug, add ice and float some lavender blossoms in the drink.  If you wish it to have a stronger color, you could add a tiny amount of lilac colored paste food coloring.

Makes enough for eight glasses.

Lavender Cookies

These have to be tasted to be believed!  If you think it sounds weird, just trust us!  The flavor is so delicate and unusual.  A batch of these in a pretty box would make a lovely gift for a friend.

Ingredients: 2/3 cup of softened butter, ½ cup sugar, 1 beaten egg, 1 ½ cups of self raising flour, 1 tablespoon of dried lavender flowers.

Method: Preheat oven to 350 degrees and grease two baking sheets.  Cream the butter and sugar.  Stir in the beaten egg.  Fold in the flour and then gently mix in the flowers.  Drop spoonfuls of the mix onto the baking sheets.  Cook for 15 to 20 minutes or until golden.

Makes around 30 cookies.

Lavender Tea

Many people now drink herb teas.  Some green, black or herbal teas do have lavender in them but try this ‘pure’ lavender version.  You can drink up to four cups a day to help with depression, insomnia, headaches, indigestion and emotional upsets.  It’s great for hair too…see the medicinal section!

Ingredients and method: Simply make tea using 1 ½ teaspoons of lavender flowers in 8 oz of water.

Herbes de Provence

This fragrant mixture of herbs was invented in Provence in the 1970′s and is used to flavor fish and meat prior to grilling and is perfect for creating a fabulous herb crust.  It can also be added to stews.  Add some to a bottle of olive oil to give lovely scented cooking oil.  The herb mixture can vary but the main ones are fennel, basil thyme and lavender.  Many French cooks say that Lavender must be present for it to be true ‘herbes de Provence’.

Lavender and Cheese

The delicate flavor goes extremely well with cheeses made from sheep’s or goat’s milk – or any other mild cheeses.

Medicinal Lavender

English and French lavenders are prized for their essential oils which are often used in herbal medicine.  The oils are included in balms, perfumes, cosmetics and salves.  Spanish lavender is not used for this purpose but is used for its beauty in the garden.

Warning: scientific tests have shown that lavender oil can cause a strong allergic reaction.  If you are in any doubt, dilute one drop of lavender oil in ten drops of water and apply some to an area on your inner elbow.  Check hourly to see if there is any reddening of the skin or itching.  If there is, don’t use it.

Lavender should always be avoided by pregnant women and those who are breastfeeding.

Used in the World Wars

Lavender oil has long been recognized as possessing both antiseptic and anti-inflammatory qualities.  During the First World War, it was diluted and used as a disinfectant wash for floors and walls.  It was also used during both World Wars when medical supplies were scarce, to help prevent infection and to reduce pain by its calming and soothing properties.  The bare stems were also burned in the same way as incense sticks, to kill off airborne germs and bring a fresh scent to the field units and sick rooms.

Sleep well…

Most people are aware that lavender helps to bring a deeper and longer sleep and many companies now sell bed pillows that are lavender scented.  Alternatively, put a lavender sachet under your pillow or a few drops of the oil on a tissue and tuck it into the pillow slip.

Soothe burns

The people of Iran have recognized the soothing properties of lavender as a treatment for sunburn for centuries.  If you’ve been too long in the sun, fill a spray bottle with water, add a few drops of lavender oil and use it whenever needed to soothe the red skin.

Help with hair

Make the recipe for lavender tea and leave it to cool.  Use it as a final rinse on hair to reduce dandruff and also impart a wonderful scent.

Spots and bites…

Dilute lavender oil at a ratio of 1 (oil) to 10 (water, rosewater or witch hazel) and use to help heal acne.  This can also be used on insect bites, stings, cuts and grazes.  It’s soothing and antiseptic so will help prevent infection.

Keep the insects away

The mixture above can also be used as an insect repellent.  It’s odd that bees love lavender bushes but they don’t seem to like it when applied to humans!  You can also soak cotton balls in the liquid and place them around your home if you have unwanted insects.

Other uses of lavender

Warning: scientific tests have shown that lavender oil can cause a strong allergic reaction.  If you are in any doubt, dilute one drop of lavender oil in ten drops of water and apply some to an area on your inner elbow.  Check hourly to see if there is any reddening of the skin or itching.  If there is, don’t use it.

Lavender should always be avoided by pregnant women and those who are breastfeeding.

  • Diluted lavender oil makes a wonderful perfume – apply it to your pulse points and wait for the complements!
  • Use a lavender sachet in your clothes dryer to give them a wonderful scent. One sachet can be used up to 25 times.
  • Lavender ink

For the most romantic love letter ever, make some lavender ink…

Ingredients: ½ oz / 15g dried lavender flowers, 6 tablespoons of water, one small bottle of ink

Method: Crush the lavender flowers and put them into a pan with the water.  Bring to the boil and then simmer for around 30 minutes or until the liquid has reduced to approx. 2 tablespoons.  It will be brown and opaque.  Strain this through some muslin, retaining the liquid.  Pour the ink into a glass jug and add the liquid.  Stir well and return it all to the ink bottle.

  • Use lavender in a wreath or dried flower arrangement. It adds color and a lovely scent.
  • Include lavender in a wedding bouquet. In the language of flowers, lavender means ‘best wishes and good luck’.

We hope we have inspired you to try some of these!


Your Guide to the Ten Most Popular Types of Massage

Massage has become very popular as a form of de-stressing.  It can get rid of accumulated tensions and leave you feeling revitalized and alive.  If you’ve never had a massage before but you’d like to have one, you may be feeling overwhelmed by the different types that are available.  Here’s a run down on what’s out there so that you can choose with confidence and get the most from the experience.

The Top Ten most popular types of massage.

1.  Swedish Massage Therapy

This is the massage that is most people in the United States go for.  It can also be called simply ‘Swedish Massage’ or ‘Massage Therapy.  The therapist uses massage oil to help their hands make long, smooth strokes over the body.  It’s good for releasing the tension and start of ‘muscle knots’ in the uppermost layers of muscle.  The therapist does this with kneading and circular movements.  Fans say that it is extremely gentle and highly relaxing.

2.  Aromatherapy Massage

This is simple massage therapy but the oil that is used will be an aromatherapy one.  This can be one or more scented essential plant oils.  Depending on what the therapist feels you need from the massage, the appropriate oil for you could be relaxing, energizing or help to reduce your stress levels.  The one most often used is lavender, which can be quite soporiphic and help you to reach a deeper level of relaxation which will give you a more effective massage.  This form of massage is particularly good for people who are under stress or have emotional upset.

3.  Hot Stone Massage

This is gaining in popularity and is perfect if you have tension in your muscles but don’t like deep massage.  Smooth, heated stones are placed onto the areas of your body where the muscles have tightened up.  Some therapists place them on Chakra or energy points.  The therapist may also hold the stones and push gently onto them.  The warmth and gentle weight of the stone is comforting and relaxing and helps to unknot you gently!

4.  Deep Tissue Massage

This is helpful if you have tight muscles that havn’t released or any form of repetitive strain.  It’s also godd for problems with posture or if you are recovering from an injury.  The therapist uses slow strokes or friction across the muscles to reach and release knots in the deep layers of muscle.  This can be quite painful at times and you may feel sore for thenext couple of days but then the relief is wonderful.

5.  Shiatsu

This works on the points of the body that are used in acupuncture.  Finger pressure is applied to the acupuncture meridian and this is held for a few seconds.  The belief is that the pressure will open up the energy points and help the correct flow of energy to become re-established, restoring health.  Although the pressure is firm, Shiatsu is not painful and can be very relaxing.  No oil is used and you remain clothed for this massage.

6.  Thai Massage

This is like Shiatsu in that the therapist uses pressure on energy points to realign your body’s energy flows.  However, it also includes being stretched and placed into different postures.  This is more energizing than relaxing andis good for relieving stress, improving flexibility and giving you a greater range of motion.  As with the Shiatsu massage, no oil is used so you keep your clothes on!

7.  Pregnancy Massage

This is also known as prenatal massage.  It’s great for lowering stress levels, bringing down swelling, helping to relieve aches and reduce anxiety.  Be sure that you find a therapist who is properly certified in pregnancy massage as they have been trained in the correct ways to support a pregnant woman during the massage.  A good one should tailor the massage to your specific requirements.

8.  Reflexology

Although this is a foot massage, it is so much more than that!  It involves putting pressure on or massaging particular points of the foot.  Each point is associated with an organ or system of the body, so ailments or problems in other areas can be helped just by massaging the foot.  On a simpler level, it’s also wonderful if you have a job that requires you to be on your feet all day.

9.  Sports Massage

This isn’t just for professional athletes.  If you work out a lot or are just an active person, you can benefit from this.  Rather than focusing on relaxation, the aim is to prevent injuries before they occur and also to treat them once they have.  The massage strokes tend to be fast and the therapist helps you to stretch to loosen up your muscles and increase your levels of flexibility.

10.  Back Massage

Some clinics and therapists will perform a 30 minute back massage.  Alternatively, if a specific back massage is not advertised, you can request a plain massage and ask the therapist to concentrate on your back.

What is Chakra Healing?

Western medicine doesn’t have all the answers. For thousands of years mankind has relied on nature and natural herbs to cure its ills. It’s only been in the last couple hundred years that western medicine has flourished. We’re led to believe that pills can cure everything. Let’s face it there’s an intrinsic link between body and soul and western medicine doesn’t have all the answers.  Certainly modern medicine has it’s place but for holistic health we need to get back to our innate nature. One of the best ways to do this is by balancing chi and Chakra healing.

What is Chakra healing though?

  • Chakras are where the Chi enters your body. There are seven major Chakra points that run up the length of your spine.  If your Chakras get out of balance it can lead to illness.
  • We get ill when one or more of our Chakras are blocked. We can only heal by righting the chakra and restoring the flow of chi through the body.

There are a few different ways to heal a Chakra

  • Yoga: Yoga has been used for centuries to restore the mind body balance. It lets you concentrate on your physicality and establish control over your own body and aura.
  • Meditation: Meditation goes along with yoga. It lets you focus your inner mind and build mind body discipline
  • Reiki: Reiki lets the body relax and restore energy flow. A Reiki healer uses a hands on approach to relax the body and let chi flow through the Chakra.

These are only a few brief tidbits regarding Chakra healing. Of course for any serious medical problem you want to use the best medicine available.

There are better ways to live healthy; hopefully this has answered a few of your questions about “what is Chakra Healing?”  This is only a brief guide and doesn’t begin to scratch the surface of thousands of years of research. But it will help you to start on your  path to health and enlightenment.


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